Greetings, fellow armpit lovers! Thanks for checking out my blog.
Today, I have what could turn out to be an extremely controversial topic.
Nobody talks about this,... but they should.
Let me start by stating, I am not a counselor, psychiatrist, psychologist, nor any kind of human behavior expert. The following is merely MY story, MY confession, and MY observation. --- Again, it's MY story, MY confession, and MY observation.
Whew, okay, that's all out of the way.
And now...
If you follow me regularly, you know I'm NOT into kink shaming. Goodness knows, I have many, many, many fetishes of my own!
Here (in no particular order) are just 5 examples of my kinky turn-ons:
1.) MALE ARMPITS
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Caleb Channing
@caleb_channing on Instagram,
@caleb_channing on Threads,
@Caleb_Channing9 on X, and
@caleb_channing_ on TikTok |
2.) GUYS WHO WEAR GLASSES
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Leandro Luz
@leandro.lluzz on Instagram and
@leandro.lluzz on Threads |
3.) GUYS WITH BIG NOSES
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| Adam Driver, Actor |
4.) NAUGHTY, MALE TWINS
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| The Patriota Twins: Marcos & Marcio |
5.) PETE BUTTIGIEG 💘
He's he brilliant, out and proud, former United States Secretary of Transportation, former U.S. Presidential candidate, and former mayor of South Bend, Indiana. 👏👏👏
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| A rare, shirtless photo of Pete. |
Another kink of mine? CASH MASTERS on social media! These muscular, majestic men love commanding the viewer to smell and lick their wet, hairy pits. They are not shy about having the camera zoom in on their hairy hollows,... as well as other private parts of their bodies. 🔞🌶️😈
Not familiar with Cash Masters? Well, here's some brief info I gathered, via various online sources:
A "Cash Master" is sometimes referred to as a "Money Master", "Straight Alpha", or "Findom". The title evokes a sense of superiority. ("Findom" and "alpha" are widely used on the social media platforms I spend time on.)
Findom, short for financial domination, is a type of BDSM (bondage, discipline, sadomasochism) relationship where one person (the "submissive") provides money, gifts, or other financial support to another person (the "dominant") as a form of sexual gratification and control. The dominant person in Findom can be referred to as a "Findom" (male) or "Findomme" (female).
There is typically no expectation of sexual contact or physical interaction in return for the financial support. The Dominant enjoys the power and control derived from receiving gifts and financial support from the submissive, sometimes called a "paypig" or "finsub." The submissive gains gratification from fulfilling the dominant's needs.
Findom isn’t a trend that has a standard look, but some looks are more popular. For those who identify as male, showing armpits, feet, sweaty socks, a cocky middle finger, and spitting at the camera are sure signals to paypigs as to who's the ATM boss, as in Automated Teller Machine.💲💲💲
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| Photo of a popular Cash Master. |
Most of findom is done online, and as a result there are a few hashtags you should know:
Using #findom, #cashmaster, #sugarbaby will be a sure way to identify yourself. Asking for a #humanatm or #paypig will let would-be financiers know you’re serious.
Now, on to my story.
I'm not ashamed to say I follow lots of Cash Masters online. I check out their media feeds and give an enthusiastic "❤️" whenever they post sexy armpit shots. If a Findom has an exceptionally hot pit pic, I'll spotlight it by posting the photo on my various social media platforms, along with his name and links. --- You know me, I LOVE promoting pits! 😍👍
There's a small group of these dominant dudes whose pages I regularly visit for surefire thrills. One of these bold bosses is Alpha Ralph.
(NOTE: To protect the guy's identity, I'm referring to him as "Alpha Ralph" for this post, and also superimposing cartoon faces on top of his.)
I've been following Alpha Ralph on X (formerly Twitter) for about a year or so. He caught my attention because he definitely knows the power of his pits, and regularly shares super-sexy armpit shots on his feed.
Well, one night last week, out of the blue, Ralph sent me a private, shirtless video, via Direct Messaging.
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| Yes, this is Alpha Ralph's actual body! |
As soon as the video began, the Alpha hottie petted his furry pitters, repeatedly going up to the propped up camera, then walking away, all the while shouting,
"F#cking f*ggot! Just f#cking finished at the gym. These f#cking pits smell so musky,... so sweaty!"
He titillatingly touched his underarm hair, then got real close to the lens and moaned,
"Ooooo, oh! Just f#cking bury your f#%king face in there, f#cking b*tch! F#ck!!!"
Ralph ended the peepshow by zooming in on his arm and flexing it for me, as his black pit hair fanned out like beautiful, billowy, peacock feathers,
"Ahhh, look at those f#cking biceps!"
I was a bit shocked that he had reached out to me, since I wasn't one of his financial submissives, so I somewhat hesitated to respond. --- Hmmm, did he want me to repost more of his pit pics on my page? Was he interested in setting up a one-on-one video chat? Was he gay, straight or bi? Was he simply up late and horny?
Ralph then texted,
"sup boy😈😈😈"
Next, in an attempt to get me to answer back, he followed up by sending me a rather sexy, armpit selfie:
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| He sent this, but his face wasn't covered. |
Well, I'll admit, I was impressed, curious, and naturally turned on.
Wanting to seem kind of cool, but not too desperate, I simply responded,
"Thanks for sharing, Ralph! --- Enrique😍😘"
His response?
"ready to serve f#g?"
And BOOM, his use of the slur "f#g" hit me like a cement brick slung to my face!
I was stunned for a moment or two, then thought to myself, "Hey, I don't appreciate Ralph degrading me!"
It triggered memories of being teased and taunted with insulting names, by school mates, strangers, and relatives.
Okay, in hindsight I figure the mucho-macho, Money Master was attempting to command me to be a good pit loving, paypig and reach into my wallet for him. Yeah, I get it. But at the time, I was "fyur-ee-uhs"! 😡😤
Of course, it happened this month, June, which is also PRIDE month.
For those unfamiliar: during Pride month "the world’s LGBTQ communities come together and celebrate the freedom to be themselves. Pride gatherings are rooted in the arduous history of minority groups who have struggled for decades to overcome prejudice and be accepted for who they are." --- CNN Online
Friends, right now in 2025, many civil rights are at risk of being taken away from LGBTQ people, which includes me and probably you as well.
Plus, several countries still criminalize consensual same-sex relations, with some governments even imposing the death penalty. --- Hate is real, and we must not perpetuate hate in any form. Even for kicks.
So, what's the rest of my story?
Well, that night, I decided to no longer follow Alpha Ralph or any other Cash Master (no matter how gorgeous or hairy) who continue to use dehumanizing names towards people in my community. For me, slurs are unhealthy and inappropriate.
Come on, armpit lovers, let's have some pride in ourselves! There are plenty of other pits in the Internet Sea,... gay and straight. Most of them are flirty and respectful, plus, they don't require you to love yourself less, so you can love them more.
And so, I made the discission to sent Ralph a final message:
"Hey there, Ralph!
Thanks for sharing your video and armpit selfie. I appreciate your bold confidence.
That said, I need to address something important. I was disappointed you used the word “fag.” While I’m openly gay and embrace kinkiness, that term is a harmful slur with a long history of pain for many in the gay community --- including me."
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| Alpha Ralph |
I continued, Maybe you use that word to sound provocative for your fans, but for me, it has the opposite effect. It was an instant turn-off. Out of respect and pride for myself and the LGBTQ+ community, I’ve decided to unfollow your page and will no longer be sharing your content on my social media platforms.
Wishing you only the best,
Enrique
Whether good or bad, I will not be sharing his response. I hope you all understand. It's a rather personal matter between me and Ralph. The only reason I've posted the main story was to hopefully shed light on the problem some of us might have.
So, Pit Pals, let's make a promise to each other! Next time we're tempted to be degraded in the name of passion or pretty pitters, just remember the immortal, wise words of the World's Most Famous Drag Queen,...
Amen!
🌈 🌈 🌈 🌈 🌈 🌈 🌈
[NOTE: Most of the images and emoji clipart used for this blog entry were found online. However, the photos of the bearded guy with the laptop (representing me) were downloaded from my subscription to VistaCreate, an online graphic design platform.]
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--- Glorious images of PRIDE flags
and the pits of gorgeous guys waving them! 🏳️🌈💓
--- A couple of collages I put together using
various subculture Pride Flags.
😍 😍 😍 😍 😍 😍 😍
Lastly, I'd love for us to keep in touch!
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| Poster design by Trevor Messersmith |
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